27 November 2007

Matthew and his milestones

For a long while, I did not read up on Matthew's development milestones.. I guess it's about time I read up and update myself...

From Parentcenter.com

Increasing awareness of emotional states Around their third birthdays, children become more interested in figuring out what motivates the people around them. You may notice your child becoming curious about other people's moods — wondering why the neighbor is angry or why his father is sad. Attempting an explanation ("Mr. Walker is upset because his paper didn't come today") helps your child learn that emotions are normal and it's okay to talk about them.

Celebrate his uniqueness As your child's natural disposition begins to show more, make it clear that his temperament — be it quiet, adventurous, reflective, or communicative — is okay with you. This doesn't mean you shouldn't encourage him to explore different sides of himself, but don't force him to behave in certain ways. A general respect for how he responds to the world will help him feel secure and confident.

Learning to make friends and share As children get older, they take more interest in socializing. Your child is probably beginning to think of his playmates as friends, and he's learning that small kindnesses — like sharing and giving — are part of friendship.

Imaginary friends Many children, especially those without siblings, create imaginary playmates. Most show up between 2½ and 3 years of age. Don't be alarmed by pretend friends. They are a part of your child's developing conscience and value system. They can provide solace and take responsibility for the things your child wishes she hadn't done. Most imaginary friends disappear before a child turns 6.

At 33-34 months,
* most kids can
Names one color M knows most of his colours.
Names one friend Yes, friends from school.
Carries on a simple conversation Yes, with amusing replies at times.

* Half of kids can do
Alternates feet going up and down stairs Yes, if somebody is holding his hands, while going down stairs
Uses prepositions (e.g., on, in, over) Yes, to a certain extent
Speaks clearly most of the time (75 percent can be understood) Yes, especially in Mandarin. Working hard on English
Stacks eight blocks YES

* A few kids can do
Is toilet trained during the day Yes, since 15-month-old
Wiggles thumb Yes
Expresses a wide range of emotions Yes
Draws a stick figure i don't think so...

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